Archive for January, 2008

My Child Wants to Live with My Ex

Monday, January 21st, 2008

Sometimes your child tells you that he or she wishes to live with the other parent, a grandparent, or some other guardian. At straightdivorce.com you can find a brief article with some good advice on how to handle the situation.

In Utah, an important thing to remember is that Utah Code does not allow a child to select which parent he or she lives with. However, as the child grows older, the child’s opinion is given increasing weight.

Click here for the full article at straightdivorce.com

Do I Need a Lawyer? The 5 Question Quiz

Monday, January 14th, 2008

Everyone has heard stories about the expense and emotional trauma of litigation. Whether you are involved in a divorce, a custody battle, a paternity action or a contested adoption, there is always a chance that things will not go smoothly. It is a natural question to wonder to what extent having a lawyer helps or hurts the process. There is no question that the cost of attorney’s fees is a significant factor that must be taken into consideration. That cost has to be balanced against the potential outcome of your divorce without the assistance of counsel. Ask yourself these questions:

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Donald Trump Endorses Prenuptials. You Don’t Have To Be Donald To Need One!

Sunday, January 6th, 2008

In Donald Trump’s new book Think BIG and Kick Ass in Business and Life, co-written with Bill Zanker of The Learning Annex in New York, Trump and Zanker say, “Marriage is a contract unlike any other contract in life. You marry for love. But your signature on the marriage certificate is all about rights, duties, and property. It’s a legally binding contract that knows nothing of love. If the love dies, all you have left is a resentful ex-spouse and the marriage certificate. There’s nothing more terrible than an ex-spouse with a ten-ton axe to grind, and no agreement on how your common property is to be divided. It usually leads to all-out war that is more vicious than any legal battle in business and could easily lead to your financial and emotional ruin. Always get a prenup. It’s just too risky not to.”

You might think to yourself, “Well, of course Donald Trump needs a prenup. He’s been married a bunch of times and he’s a billionaire. But I don’t have anything in my savings account, no retirement, and my house only has $10,000.00 in equity. I do not have anything worth protecting so I don’t need a prenuptial agreement. Plus, my spouse and I would never act that way.”

That line of thinking is wrong for three reasons:

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